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Sharing a link

Just one thing to read this week – it is immensely sobering, and sad, and triggering. A distressing post about what it is like being a woman in Delhi – “The Subjugation Capital”.

I love Delhi, the city. I love its wide, open roads, its wonderful architecture. I’ve made great friends in Delhi. I went to a wonderful school in Delhi. I’ve also suffered in Delhi. I’m one of millions of women with tales to tell of how Delhi has ground our self-respect and security to dust. General descriptions of harassment can’t adequately describe the horror a woman faces every day in the city. There isn’t a single moment when you’re walking its streets that you can think “I’m safe, I can breathe easy and enjoy the sunshine. What a lovely day!” If you have breasts, you’re fair game. It doesn’t matter who you are, where you’re from, how old you are, you can be a man’s property. You can be used for his gratification. You can be dominated.

Have you noticed how everyone is talking about “the Delhi rape victim”? I (Deb) have. She has been turned into a symbol, not a real person anymore. How about, “the woman in Delhi who was gangraped and beaten”? And now, even more sadly, the woman in Delhi who was raped and beaten so horrifically that she has died.

That’s all.

3 responses to “Sharing a link

  1. Sandra December 30, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    How about the woman who was getting better in hospital and was able to give a statement to the police and then was moved to bloody Singapore for no good reason and who then died “peacefully” from an infection. FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!

  2. Valis January 2, 2013 at 3:07 am

    She was moved to Singapore because their hospitals are, sadly, better than any in India. It’s quite common for Indian politicians and magnates to go to Singapore for their operations.

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